Homily for the 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C
In today’s Gospel (Luke 14:25–33), Jesus speaks very strongly to the large crowds following Him. He tells them that whoever wants to be His disciple must be ready to “hate” father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, and even his own life. He adds that one must carry the cross and renounce all possessions. At first, these words may sound harsh, but Jesus is teaching us that discipleship requires total commitment and priority.
Jesus does not mean that we should literally hate our families. Rather, He is saying that our love for Him must be so deep and primary that, in comparison, every other attachment seems small. To follow Christ, nothing—not even family ties, personal comfort, or possessions—should come before Him.
The two examples He gives—the man building a tower and the king preparing for war—show us that discipleship is not a casual decision. Just as one counts the cost before starting a project, so must we count the cost of following Jesus. It is a lifelong journey of sacrifice, self-denial, and trust in God.
The first reading from the Book of Wisdom reminds us that by ourselves we cannot fully know God’s plans. But through the gift of the Holy Spirit, God reveals His wisdom to us and strengthens us in our journey of faith. The second reading, from Paul’s letter to Philemon, is a practical example of this wisdom. Paul asks Philemon to receive Onesimus, a runaway slave, not as a slave but as a brother in Christ. Here we see how discipleship transforms relationships—faith in Christ breaks down barriers and calls us to see one another with new eyes.
What does this mean for us today?
To follow Christ, we must put Him first above money, power, pleasure, or even the approval of others.
True discipleship means carrying our cross daily—accepting difficulties, forgiving others, being faithful in prayer, and living with honesty and love.
Like Philemon, we are challenged to let our faith change how we relate to others—with love, justice, and mercy.
Dear brothers and sisters, being a Christian is not just about following when it is easy but remaining faithful even when it is costly. Let us ask the Lord to give us His wisdom and strength, so that we may truly be His disciples—putting Him first, carrying our crosses, and living with love in our families, communities, and the world.